I only realised yesterday what a turn on, voices are to me.
How someone speaks has always been important to me but as I discovered yesterday, how their voice sounds can grab my attention from across a room… or across 3 checkouts at the supermarket as the case may be.
I’ve been volunteered, I’ve been guilt-tripped, I’ve been pressured and I’ve been pushed into jobs lately that I don’t want to do. I know they mean well and see it as a favour to me but honestly, it’s not.
Now, I’m sick and all I keep hearing is that it’s such an inconvenience and how frustrating it is for you.
I think it’s time I started realising that once I hit my limit, it’s okay to say no.